Thank you Tom. I'm trying to distract myself with the computer, it helps just a bit. I expect it seems strange to some for me to be on here when i am sitting next to someone I love who is dying, but there is nothing else I can do for him, except be here. And it's so hard to sit and do nothing when I want so much to do ANYTHING that could save him. Being able to talk to friends, electronically, is able to help me a little.