I had an unknown lady call and leave a message that she wanted me to call her back - she called on Monday evening. I ignored the call as I was busy, the caller ID just said it was a wireless number, every other word was garbled on her message and I thought it was a scam. She called yesterday late afternoon and acted all high and mighty that I hadn't returned her call promptly.
Bonnie, @NECPA in NEBRASKA my heart goes out to you and I'll keep you in my prayers. Lurk for as many years as you wish, or disappear in a few weeks, as seems good to you. You can always get sympathy here, and advice for those family returns, and more.