Thanks for the well wishes and advice.
As far as "the account"...with 95% accuracy, my son would never take money from this account (he lives well within his salary....one might call him frugal)....it would definitely be best to just name him beneficiary. Hopefully it will end up a "large account" because an annuity distribution will be contributed monthly "forever". (Annuity has low tax cost basis and high current value....tax nightmare...so I'm spreading it over as many years as possible.)
Until 2020 retirement was great...lots of cruises, shows, restaurants....the good life. Now...supermarket, tv...etc
The best thing about retirement is that I don't have to keep up with tax changes!