Usually when incomes are roughly the same, MFS costs way more than MFJ because the tax rates are so much higher and deductions/credits limited. The SALT deduction for MFS, for example, is limited to $5k each. It can work if medical expenses aren't 7.5% of joint income but exceed that using one income.
A lot of people ask about MFS when they learn they can't itemize. They think they are losing out on claiming their mortgages, charities, etc. Actually, if your standard deduction is $27,700 and your itemized deds are $25k, you are winning!