I have to take my hats off to Abby Normal. I should hesitate because there are so many other great people on this board that should be mentioned.
I am notorious for my cumbersome phraseology. Often I will ask a question and get responses from good people who, from their responses, are unclear what I am asking. This is my own problem, and not anyone else's. Often I have to repeat myself, and the conversation runs in many directions, very much like a "circular reference" in Excel.
Occasionally you meet someone who can perceive what is in your mind - to the extent they know what you are saying before it ever comes out of your mouth. Hopefully, in your years of human experience, you have encountered a few such people.
Abby Normal seems to know exactly what I am asking, why I'm asking, as if he is in my own shoes sharing the subject. Not just once, but consistently over and over again. I met this Abby Normal (and forgot his real name) at the gathering at Rita's in 2018, which was a delightful event for myself and my wife.
Again, there are a number of helpful people in this community and I don't want to lessen their contributions by not mentioning them. Thanks to all who have put up with my awkward choice of words.
Abby, wherever you are, please stay with us...