Well, you might now have to ask if their children were abused.
SECURE 2.0 added an new 72(t) exception to the 10% tax for early withdrawals from retirement plans, effective for TY24, for domestic abuse victims. Domestic abuse is defined as "physical, psychological, sexual, emotional, or economic abuse, including efforts to control, isolate, humiliate, or intimidate the victim, or to undermine the victim’s ability to reason independently, including by means of abuse of the victim’s child or another family member living in the household."